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Secret Santa invitation message and rules to send

Secret Santa invitation messages for friends, family and the office, with the rules every guest needs in the first message.

CardToPage · 24 October 2026 · 5 min read
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A Secret Santa invitation needs five things: the budget, the sign-up deadline, the exchange date, where the exchange happens, and how names will be drawn. If any of these is missing, you will answer the same question in a group chat twenty times. Send the invitation in the first week of December for an exchange in mid-December.

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Short Secret Santa invitation message

“Secret Santa is on! Budget: [amount]. Sign up by [date] here: [link]. Names are drawn on [date], and we exchange gifts on [date] at [place]. Please keep your person a secret.”

Friends and family version

“We are doing Secret Santa this year. Join by [date]: [link]. Budget is [amount]. Add a few things you like when you sign up, so your Santa knows what to get. We exchange on [date] at [address].”

Office Secret Santa

“Our team Secret Santa starts now. Sign up by [date]: [link]. Budget: [amount]. Gifts should be work-appropriate. Gift exchange is on [date] during the team lunch.”

Virtual Secret Santa

“Secret Santa for those of us in different cities. Sign up by [date]: [link]. Budget: [amount]. Please send gifts by [date] so they arrive before the video call on [date].”

Rules to put in the first message

  • A budget, with the currency.
  • A deadline to join, and a deadline to buy.
  • Whether gifts are wrapped, handmade or from a wish list.
  • What happens if someone drops out.

What to ask at sign-up

  • Name and how they want to be reached.
  • A short wish list or a few likes and dislikes.
  • Allergies, if the gift is food.
  • Shipping address, for a virtual exchange.

Follow-up

Send a reminder two days before the sign-up deadline and another a week before the exchange. Repeat the budget in both.